Is it normal for me not to be around family and friends bc im not where want to be in life. I dont know why?

I feel this way. It seems like all my friends are getting married moving out on their own and getting their lives together. I'm lagging behind.I mean I have my bachelors degree and all but I didnt exactly land a good job and I still live at home at 25. I feel really dissappointed so I really started straying away. Is this normal. I know that once I get myself together I might change, but I cannot be around anyone until I do. Has anyone else experienced this? Just wondering if this is a normal feeling?